The Psyche and Eros Relationship Analysis for

Second Person

and

First Person




Birth Data for Second Person:

August 30, 1971
9:00 AM
Columbus, Ohio




Birth Data for First Person:

February 25, 2006
5:31:05 AM
New Aalesund, Norway










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The Psyche and Eros Compatibility Report

     What is it you want to know when you are checking out a romantic relationship? Basically two things. First, you want to understand the emotional needs, temperament, hang-ups and issues each person brings to the relationship. In other words, the relationship potential of each person. And then, of course, you want to understand how the emotional needs, temperament, hang-ups and issues of one person relate to those of another person in order to see how they would get along. In other words, the compatibility analysis.

     The first two sections of the complete Psyche and Eros Relationship Analysis describes the relationship potential of each person. Sections 3 and 4 is the compatibility analysis and describes how the two people experience each other and the relationship from the perspective of each person.

     The myth of Psyche and Eros is a love story which shows the soul's longing for -- and ultimate attainment of -- love.


     Your birth chart interpretation is based on the positions of the planets at the time of your birth. For the benefit of students of astrology, these positions, along with other technical information, are listed below:

Data for Second Person:            Data for First Person:
Tropical Zodiac                    Tropical Zodiac
House System: PLACIDUS             House System: PLACIDUS
Daylight Savings Time observed     Standard time observed
Time Zone: 5 hours West            Time Zone: 1 hours East
GMT: 13:00:00                      GMT: 04:31:05
39 N 57 40     82 W 59 56          78 N 56        11 E 57   

Sun    6 deg 30 min Vir            Sun    6 deg 26 min Pis
Moon  23 deg 02 min Sag            Moon  26 deg 28 min Cap
Merc  29 deg 30 min Leo            Merc  24 deg 25 min Pis
Venus  7 deg 16 min Vir            Venus 24 deg 03 min Cap
Mars  12 deg 33 min Aqu            Mars   3 deg 39 min Gem
Jup   28 deg 34 min Sco            Jup   18 deg 46 min Sco
Sat    6 deg 11 min Gem            Sat    5 deg 43 min Leo
Uran  11 deg 39 min Lib            Uran  10 deg 28 min Pis
Nept   0 deg 23 min Sag            Nept  18 deg 00 min Aqu
Pluto 28 deg 40 min Vir            Pluto 26 deg 28 min Sag
Asc.   0 deg 03 min Lib            Asc.  24 deg 14 min Lib
MC     0 deg 04 min Can            MC    26 deg 55 min Sco
2nd   26 deg 14 min Lib            2nd    5 deg 08 min Tau
3rd   26 deg 39 min Sco            3rd   16 deg 02 min Tau
5th    3 deg 28 min Aqu            5th   16 deg 02 min Can
6th    3 deg 53 min Pis            6th    5 deg 08 min Vir


SECTION I:  How Second Person Relates to Other People


Aries on 7th house cusp

     You, who can charm others so easily, are attracted to people who are both passionate and direct. You may tend to project your own aggressive and controlling tendencies onto other people and then resent them for it. You cannot be alone. You need partnerships.

     You form impulsive attachments. You have a knack of pursuing the people you are attracted to without appearing overly aggressive or anxious. Others may marvel at the way ordinarily aloof people respond to you. You unconsciously arouse competitiveness.

     You are charming, romantic and attractive and need to know that other people like you. Self-assertion frightens you and when circumstances make it necessary you usually feel victimized and over-react. You admire people who are strong and aggressive.

     Ideally, you connect with people who share your views and are less inhibited than you are about fighting for them. You admire their courage and independence. While they may outwardly appear to be the more dominant partner, this is rarely actually the case.

Mars, Ruler of 7th house, is in 5th:

     While it is true that you are a bit of a flirt, it is also true that you are loving, romantic and very loyal.  You adore people who are lively, original and creative and, perhaps, a little younger than you are.  Frequently, there is a shared interest in the arts, spots or some aspect of the entertainment business.  Even if it is your partner who is more actively involved, you are somehow involved as well.  One of the best things about your relationship is you have fun together.

     When you are not with someone who likes to do the same things you do, you are not your usual accommodating self.  You  become bored and irritable.  Children may play an important role in your relationships.  When this is so, your relationship is less tenderly nurturing than it is lively and actively engaged.  Even if your work and the circumstances of your life have not pointed you in the direction of the arts, something deep inside of you continually seeks to find expression.  Your most successful relationships tap into that and enable you to explore a creative side normally ignored and have the confidence to take certain risks previously considered unthinkable.

Sun Square Saturn with an orb of less than 1/2 degree

     Your self-esteem is based less upon what you are in your own or others' eyes than on what you do. You may become so compulsive about achievement that you cannot relax into a warm, enduring relationship until you have achieved some success in your career.

Sun Conjunct Venus with an orb between 1/2 and 1 degree

     Most people like you. You form relationships easily but may have some difficulty sustaining them. You tend to project your own ego ideals onto your partner, sometimes at the expense of relating to their needs. For you, admiration is a prerequisite for love.

Mercury Square Jupiter with an orb between 1/2 and 1 degree

     Details are not your cup of tea. You are fascinated by philosophy and the world of ideas. You are a great talker and reader and your best companions will be those who share your concepts and ideals. You prefer professional people with a certain flair.

Mercury Square Neptune with an orb between 1/2 and 1 degree

     Your imagination is so powerful that, if you don't have a strong creative or spiritual outlet, you may at times be over-influenced by your own fantasies or those of others. Beware of gullibility. In the long run, telling the truth is in your best interest.

Pluto Conjunct Asc. with an orb between 1 and 3 degrees

     You are not always aware of your own magnetism. Others find you intense and, sometimes, controlling. You have such strong fears of losing relationships that sometimes you imagine that people are turning against you when the opposite is more often true.

Venus Square Saturn with an orb between 1 and 3 degrees

     Since you were a child you have felt you could not just be yourself and be loved. You had to earn your love in some way by being or doing something special. You are far more self-protective than most people realize. Your best love partners are also work partners.

Pluto Square MC with an orb between 1 and 3 degrees

     Power struggles often enter into your relationships - both personal and professional. You have an innate fear of being dominated owing to your experience with a controlling parent. Strong people fascinate you. You're a little afraid of people you love.

Mercury Sextile MC with an orb of less than 1 degree

     Since you were a child in school, your intellectual and communicative skills attracted the attention of those in positions of authority and you were always able to make your way by being exceptionally clever. This facility serves you well as an adult.

Neptune Sextile Asc. with an orb of less than 1 degree

     You have a gentle, romantic, dreamy quality and people often find you mysterious or elusive. You have an uncanny facility to communicate with people without speaking and to tune into their innermost thoughts. You connect best with those equally sensitive.

Jupiter Sextile Asc. with an orb between 1 and 5 degrees

     There is a quality about you people tend to trust. They confide in you and generally feel better in your presence which has a kind of healing quality. Sometimes you tend to draw close relationships who originally came to see you for some sort of help or guidance.

Mercury Conjunct Venus with an orb between 5 and 8 degrees

     Intelligence is sexy to you. If a person you find physically attractive isn't also bright, verbal and someone you can talk to, you're not interested. You have a highly developed aesthetic sense and are drawn to people of taste, wit and charm.

Moon Opposition MC with an orb between 5 and 8 degrees

     You are forever embroiled in controversy with people in positions of authority which, at times, may attract public attention. You want and need approval more than you care to admit to yourself, but it must be on your terms and not entail any compromise.

Sun Square Jupiter with an orb between 5 and 8 degrees

     Sometimes you suffer from an excess of enthusiasm and plunge into relationships and projects without seriously considering beforehand the viability of the situation. You are kind, honest and good-humored. Sometimes you're also a show-off or a know-it-all.

Sun Square Neptune with an orb between 5 and 8 degrees

     Your father was either over-idealized or he was rejected as a role model. Either way, your concept of what a man should be is not based upon a mortal person, but upon an ideal. This may lead to unrealistic expectations in close personal relationships.

Moon Square Pluto with an orb between 5 and 8 degrees

     You had an over-controlling parent and something inside of you decided that no one else would ever have that kind of control over you again. You tend to repress your deepest feelings and fears and are surprised when close ties suggest you're manipulative.

Moon Square Asc. with an orb between 5 and 8 degrees

     You often feel emotionally misunderstood. You may have learned as a child to hide your true feelings in order to accommodate those around you. As an adult, your outer manner often belies your inner responses more than you may consciously realize or intend.

Mercury Square Saturn with an orb between 5 and 8 degrees

     You are a serious person and inclined to be somewhat inflexible in your thinking. Since you tend to be rather judgmental, you could only be happy with someone who is in philosophical agreement with you and conceptualizes the world as you do. Sometimes you are rather taciturn.

Venus Square Neptune with an orb between 5 and 8 degrees

     Love for you is often a "divine discontent". You are so romantic and idealistic it is difficult for any mortal person to sustain your interest without disappointing you. Your need to idealize loved ones may make you susceptible to illusion.

Moon Trine Mercury with an orb between 5 and 8 degrees

     You're sensitive and perceptive and in touch with your feelings. No matter how difficult a situation is, you feel you can deal with it if you can understand it. Someone who is less emotionally self-aware or expressive would make you feel uncomfortable. You like to discuss everything. Feelings that aren't acknowledged can't be discussed.

Saturn Trine Asc. with an orb between 5 and 8 degrees

     You were not encouraged to be overly expressive when you were a child and as an adult still tend to be somewhat reserved. You often give the impression of being serious or even stern when, in truth, you are simply feeling shy or self-protective.

Sun does not aspect Moon

     Your parents' interests and emotional natures, while not in violent conflict, were so different it was hard to understand how they ever came together. You associate close relationships with both longing and loneliness and may be unclear about roles.

Sun does not aspect Asc.

     People do not receive an accurate first impression of you. Owing to shyness or lack of confidence, you have cultivated a persona which is not expressive of the person you experience yourself to be. This creates complications in personal relationships.




SECTION II:  How First Person Relates to Other People


Libra on 7th house cusp

     You are independent, aggressive, competitive and spontaneous. When you see something or someone you want, you go after it with an endearingly childlike directness. You are a hopeless romantic. When someone does not respond to your overtures, you are crushed.

     You are utterly captivated by lovely looking, well-dressed, well-mannered people who are charming, gentle, cultivated - and know how to handle you diplomatically when you become over-enthusiastic or volatile. Your partners subtly manipulate rather than fight.

     You do like having your own way and one way or another you manage to get it. Despite your powerful persona, however, you are emotionally far needier than most people realize for love and acceptance from people who admire your strength rather than fear it.

     Your partners tend to be charming, romantic and often creative. While they may outwardly yield to your need to lead the way, they are by no means weak. Sometimes they are gently manipulative and can be quite stubborn. Physical attractiveness matters to you.

Mars, Ruler of 7th house, is in 11th:

     You are personally attractive and enjoy living well.  you are drawn to people have a certain glamour and -- let's face it -- status.  When you are in a group situation, you may or may not consciously seek out the most prestigious people in it, but they are the ones you usually wind up close to.  Your social life is important to you and you put a lot of energy into it.  You are also very idealistic.  Whether your interests embrace politics, the arts, humanitarian concerns or social issues, you are both an active participant and a collaborator.  One thing clearly can be said:  you are not a loner.  You always have a partner and collaborator and are happiest when this aspect of the relationship combines with the emotional.  You become a formidable team.

     Your partners are dynamic and creative and you enjoy their occasional  theatrics.  If you should connect with someone who has children, you may have a somewhat contentious relationship with at least one of those children.  You are very generous with those to whom you are close and you are a lavish gift-giver.  You require a good deal of attention and stroking but, to be fair, you are willing to give it as well.

Venus Square Asc. with an orb of less than 1/2 degree

     You are personally attractive with a natural charm which tends to draw people to you. Your native courtesy tends to make others assume that you share their values even when this isn't quite the case. You are unusually sensitive to others' appearance.

Moon Conjunct Venus with an orb between 1 and 3 degrees

     Lucky you. As a child you received a great deal of love leaving you not only with the capacity to love deeply yourself but with the security of knowing that you have value and that there will always be people you can turn to. You form love ties easily.

Sun Square Mars with an orb between 1 and 3 degrees

     Something in your relationship with your father aroused in you either fear or anger or both. Your relationships with men - personally or professionally - are not comfortable and when you are feeling vulnerable, you can be overly defensive or challenging.

Moon Square Asc. with an orb between 1 and 3 degrees

     You often feel emotionally misunderstood. You may have learned as a child to hide your true feelings in order to accommodate those around you. As an adult, your outer manner often belies your inner responses more than you may consciously realize or intend.

Mercury Square Pluto with an orb between 1 and 3 degrees

     You're not awfully good at being disagreed with. You delve into matters, think them through thoroughly and expect your conclusions to be universally shared. Flexibility is not your strong suit. No one should try to lie to you or keep things from you. Somehow you ferret out others' secrets although you keep your own.

Mercury Trine MC with an orb between 1 and 3 degrees

     Since you were a child in school, your intellectual and communicative skills attracted the attention of those in positions of authority and you were always able to make your way by being exceptionally clever. This facility serves you well as an adult.

Moon Sextile MC with an orb of less than 1 degree

     Your emotional needs and interests transcend your immediate domestic environment. You abhor the provincial and aspire to participate in something which will be of benefit to many. This is not mere ambition but a passion. You may attract the public eye.

Mercury Sextile Venus with an orb of less than 1 degree

     You are creative and charming. You speak well, live well and are fond of people who have taste, wit, good manners and share your aesthetic interests. Your emotional ties must also be on your intellectual level or your interest will soon begin to wane.

Moon SemiSquare Uranus with an orb of less than 1 degree

     You have an emotional, if not conscious, recollection of early emotional nurturing which was erratic or unpredictable. As an adult, you instinctively set up emotional situations where you have some independent outlet - either other people or work projects.

Mercury Quincunx Asc. with an orb of less than 1 degree

     You relate to your world through your intellect but you may be so absorbed in your own ideas or projects that you don't always perceive when misunderstandings or cross-purposes place you at odds with others and set up unnecessary barriers to communication.

Sun Conjunct Uranus with an orb between 3 and 5 degrees

     You are restless and independent and, no matter how close you become to someone, you always remain your own person and there is a part of yourself you cannot share. You are uncompromisingly true to your convictions which must be shared by those close to you.

Moon Sextile Mercury with an orb between 1 and 5 degrees

     You're sensitive and perceptive and in touch with your feelings. No matter how difficult a situation is, you feel you can deal with it if you can understand it. Someone who is less emotionally self-aware or expressive would make you feel uncomfortable. You like to discuss everything. Feelings that aren't acknowledged can't be discussed.

Venus Sextile MC with an orb between 1 and 5 degrees

     Love cannot exist for you without admiration and respect. You like to feel proud of your relationships and often form close ties with those in positions of authority. You are socially conscious and attract friends and good fortune through your personal charm and talent.

Pluto Sextile Asc. with an orb between 1 and 5 degrees

     You are not always aware of your own magnetism. Others find you intense and, sometimes, controlling. You have such strong fears of losing relationships that sometimes you imagine that people are turning against you when the opposite is more often true.

Venus SemiSquare Uranus with an orb between 1 and 2 degrees

     You need to be close and you need to be free. This is a major life conflict which has always created complications for you in close personal relationships. One manifestation of this may be a tendency to pursue the unavailable or the unreliable.

Mercury Quintile Mars with an orb between 1 and 3 degrees

     Your sense of humor is one of your outstanding qualities. It usually manifests as a rather wry wit. Anyone you're close to must share this sense of irony. You probably have a special talent or an absorbing interest. Your closest ties are likewise involved.

Mars Opposition MC with an orb between 5 and 8 degrees

     Power is sexy to you and even when a relationship is not a romantic one, you find ambitious go-getters in positions of authority very magnetic and fascinating. It is important to you that close ties not only share your goals but are prepared to fight for them.

Moon Trine Mars with an orb between 5 and 8 degrees

     You are passionate, competitive and high-spirited and enjoy relationships with assertive, independent people. You're restless and active and, when you are close to someone, like to do things together. You enjoy a good fight and don't carry a grudge.

Mercury Trine Jupiter with an orb between 5 and 8 degrees

     You have a quality people trust and you are often sought after as a confidante or an advisor. You have high moral and ethical standards and it is imperative that anyone you're close to is a person of the highest integrity. You prefer well-educated people.

Neptune Trine Asc. with an orb between 5 and 8 degrees

     You have a gentle, romantic, dreamy quality and people often find you mysterious or elusive. You have an uncanny facility to communicate with people without speaking and to tune into their innermost thoughts. You connect best with those equally sensitive.

Sun does not aspect Moon

     Your parents' interests and emotional natures, while not in violent conflict, were so different it was hard to understand how they ever came together. You associate close relationships with both longing and loneliness and may be unclear about roles.

Sun does not aspect Asc.

     People do not receive an accurate first impression of you. Owing to shyness or lack of confidence, you have cultivated a persona which is not expressive of the person you experience yourself to be. This creates complications in personal relationships.




SECTION III:  The Relationship from Second Person's Point of View


     Second Person, the following information explains how you view your relationship with First Person, and explores some of the major issues that arise.

Your Sun Oppos First Person's Sun (orb < 1 deg)

     You are very different types of people. At times this can be most attractive - at least in the initial stages of the relationship. This relationship requires special sensitivity and a greater attempt at empathy if misunderstandings are to be avoided.

Your Venus Oppos First Person's Sun (orb < 1 deg)

     The strong bond of love and affection between you will transcend the most difficult times. You love being physically together. First Person makes you feel loved and valued, stimulates your creative energy and shares your values. You have fun together.

Your Moon Conj First Person's Pluto (orb 1-5 deg)

     This is a relationship you were compulsively drawn into before you even decided you liked First Person who can exert an odd power over you which you try at times to resist - rarely with success. The emotional tie is obsessive and evokes your deepest longings.

Your Sun Oppos First Person's Uranus (orb 1-5 deg)

     You were attracted from the very first meeting. You felt, on one hand, that you completely understood First Person and, on the other, that you never knew what to expect next. You admire First Person's originality. It taps into a uniqueness of your own.

Your Venus Oppos First Person's Uranus (orb 1-5 deg)

     You were attracted immediately. There was something unique about First Person which caught your attention. You sensed a special insight into your deepest-felt values and this inspired in you feelings of warmth. You may share unusual or advanced interests.

Your MC Oppos First Person's Pluto (orb 1-5 deg)

     Since you met, your life direction has been totally transformed. This relationship has a strange influence over you, particularly on a professional level. First Person connects strongly to your public image and projects a power onto you which can be worrying.

Your Sun Square First Person's Mars (orb 1-5 deg)

     First Person arouses in you either love or hate - nothing lukewarm here. There is a strong underlying sexual energy and if circumstances make this inappropriate, it may manifest in competitiveness or quarreling. Here is someone who really challenges you.

Your Moon Square First Person's Mercury (orb 1-5 deg)

     You often come away from discussions with First Person feeling kind of irritated. You've made your point and First Person replied  but somehow there's been no connection. The logic is there but not the understanding. You probably shouldn't work together.

Your Mercury Square First Person's Mars (orb 1-5 deg)

     While you may often enjoy First Person's energy, at times it irritates you and you are not at all shy about expressing your irritation. You don't like the way First Person tries to rush you or to overrun your ideas -- particularly when it's done aggressively. You fight a lot.

Your Mercury Square First Person's MC (orb 1-5 deg)

     This would be a very good working relationship. You connect very strongly with First Person's goals and ambitions and can, through your communication skills, work together to attain them. First Person respects your intelligence and opinions and will frequently defer to your judgment.

Your Venus Square First Person's Mars (orb 1-5 deg)

     When you first met, you felt a strong but unsettling sexual attraction. While there was no question that the interest was reciprocated, perhaps First Person came on a little too strong. While the sexual energy continues to be volatile, you wish First Person was more romantic.

Your Mercury Trine First Person's Pluto (orb 1-5 deg)

     First Person respects your intelligence and may be more influenced by your thinking than you realize. You, in turn, admire First Person's magnetism and authority and find it motivates you to develop and analyze ideas which  might not otherwise have surfaced.

Your Asc. Trine First Person's Moon (orb 1-5 deg)

     First Person identifies with you in a very personal way and you respond in a rather physical way to First Person's emotional state. Sometimes this can create great bonding and closeness and sometimes it can lead to irritation. This is a very intimate and emotional tie.

Your Asc. Trine First Person's Mars (orb 1-5 deg)

     From the first meeting, First Person's physical presence affected you so strongly it was almost unsettling. You continue to find First Person interesting and stimulating but when you need to relax, you seek quiet places where you can be totally alone and private.

Your Moon Sextile First Person's Asc. (orb 1-5 deg)

     From the first time you saw First Person you intuitively sensed an emotional tie and were attracted. You are very comfortable together. You enjoy special feelings of closeness and camaraderie. First Person may outwardly manifest the feelings you may hold within.

Your Sun Sesqu. First Person's Moon (orb 1-5 deg)

     While you may communicate very well on a rational level, sometimes you may feel as if First Person doesn't really understand you. You may find First Person's emotional responses incomprehensible as well. You have to make a special effort to share and connect.

Your Sun Sesqu. First Person's Venus (orb 1-5 deg)

     While you may like First Person very much, you may worry that you don't share the same values. Your taste may be different. You may like different types of people. Sometimes you feel insecure in the relationship and feel less valued than you might wish.

Your Moon Sesqu. First Person's Saturn (orb 1-5 deg)

     No matter how close you, you're never entirely comfortable emotionally when you are together. First Person subtly affects your self-confidence and you may have a disquieting sense that no matter how hard you try to please you never entirely succeed.

Your Moon does not aspect First Person's Moon

     While you may like and respect each other and understand each other intellectually, there is an emotional distance which might prevent you from being truly at home with or comfortable with each other. You may, at times, find each other's moods or responses puzzling.

Your Mercury does not aspect First Person's Mercury

     You don't think alike. Even if you are in emotional accord, there are times you seriously question if you see the same world since, while your perceptions are not necessarily in conflict, they are so different. Discussions are rarely fruitful or pleasurable.

Your Mercury does not aspect First Person's Venus

     There is something about First Person's personal style and taste and way of expressing affection which doesn't comfortably merge with your own. It may not exactly lead to war, but it may have delayed the initial attraction. Your philosophies aren't quite in sync.

Your Venus does not aspect First Person's Venus

     While you may be very fond of each other, you're quite dissimilar in some important ways. Your tastes diverge widely and you tend to express love very differently. You don't like the same people and have different interests. You wish First Person dressed differently.

First Person's Sun in your 6th house:

     It's very important for the success of this relationship that you work together on a project of intense mutual interest. Otherwise, you will find yourself feeling subordinate to First Person which you won't like much - unless, of course, you enjoy feeling subordinate.

     If you are working together on a project of interest, you will grant First Person the authority role and you will play the helping role - even if the obvious, more official roles are the reverse. First Person is physically dependent upon you to make sure everything is functioning comfortably and will change personal habits to please you.

First Person's Moon in your 4th house:

     There were strong parallels in your childhood experiences and you intuitively sensed when you met First Person that you had a great deal in common. Perhaps you were reminded  of one of your parents. In any event, you experienced an odd familiarity from the beginning.

     You both have similar ideas about the way a home should be and could live together quite compatibly. You are happily comfortable when the two of you are alone. Even if you don't actually live together, First Person understands your needs and creates an emotional nest for you.

First Person's Mercury in your 6th house:

     You really rely on First Person's judgment in your work. You would do well to work together on projects relating to writing, publishing or communications. Much of your conversation is centered around work projects. You may also share an interest in health matters.

First Person's Venus in your 4th house:

     During the early stages of your relationship, you enjoyed having First Person in your home and First Person enjoyed being there. Even if yours is a working relationship, it benefits from a more personal association. You're happy with each other and could live together.

     The special intimacy which marks your relationship brings back the best and warmest aspects of your home life when you were a child. First Person seems to be drawn to a quality you may not reveal to many people and even helps you to develop this hidden quality.

First Person's Mars in your 9th house:

     One of the most exciting aspects of this relationship is the way it triggers your thinking and stimulates you to develop and act upon your most cherished philosophies. Even debates or disagreements could motivate you to move in this direction.

     Issues relating to education, travel, publications and moral or religious matters may, at times, be a source of disagreement between you. First Person is very independent. If cherished views are taken for granted or not respected, there will be confrontations.

First Person's Jupiter in your 2nd house:

     This relationship has a wonderful influence on your life. Not only does First Person's presence encourage you to develop your talents and resources to their fullest, it has a very positive effect upon your financial situation. And then there are those wonderful gifts.

     First Person may be of material benefit to you by both sharing and encouraging you to express strongly-felt values and to develop your talent and resources. Sometimes, however, this enthusiasm leads you to be more extravagant than usual.

First Person's Saturn in your 11th house:

     Your relationship may be wonderful in many respects but your social life isn't exactly the most satisfying part of it. It may be that your circumstances are such that you lack opportunity to meet people. Your friends may not be comfortable with First Person.

     First Person may feel that your social interests or obligations are at odds  and it is hard for you to have fun together. It would be helpful if you both worked hard for an organization devoted to an intense interest you both share equally.

First Person's Uranus in your 6th house:

     If you work together, don't expect First Person to keep regular hours or work in predictable ways. The job will get done but it will be in First Person's  time and in First Person  way. The work you do together might be unusual or represent new age thinking.

     If you need First Person to carry out some responsibility, you'll have better luck with it if you don't try to over-control the situation. First Person can affect your mood in odd ways and cause you to feel restless and temperamental.

First Person's Neptune in your 5th house:

     It sometimes amazes you how fast the time passes when you're with First Person. Whether you are together for pleasure or for work purposes, an atmosphere is created which cannot help but to capture the imagination and lend a lovely quality to your relationship.

     There's something about First Person which triggers your romantic fantasies. If you are at all artistic, this relationship inspires you. You probably enjoy listening to music together and often go to the movies or the theater. First Person makes you feel wonderful.

First Person's Pluto in your 3rd house:

     Sometimes when you are getting ready to change your environment, someone comes into your life who so shakes up your thinking and reflects your altered perspective, that remaining in the old situation becomes truly impossible. First Person has this effect upon you.

     You would work wonderfully together on any project involving either depth analysis or research. You both enjoy digging below the surface - frequently in each other's lives - and any type of cooperative probing would enhance this friendship and draw you closer.




SECTION IV:  The Relationship from First Person's Point of View


     First Person, the following information explains how you view your relationship with Second Person, and explores some of the major issues that arise.

Your Sun Oppos Second Person's Sun (orb < 1 deg)

     You are very different types of people. At times this can be most attractive - at least in the initial stages of the relationship. This relationship requires special sensitivity and a greater attempt at empathy if misunderstandings are to be avoided.

Your Sun Oppos Second Person's Venus (orb < 1 deg)

     You feel Second Person's admiration and love and respond in kind. There is something about the way Second Person looks at you which makes you feel not only more confident and attractive but capable of achieving more. You admire Second Person's personal style, charm and talent.

Your Sun Square Second Person's Saturn (orb < 1 deg)

     Your connection with Second Person is strangely bonding. If you are willing to submit to the restrictions and responsibilities this relationship imposes, it will be a lifetime tie which will improve with time. This can never be a casual relationship.

Your Mars Conj Second Person's Saturn (orb 1-5 deg)

     On one level Second Person fascinates you and motivates you to be the best that you can be. On another, there is something about Second Person which pressures you somehow and can lead to resentment. If this is not dealt with openly, it can inhibit sexual responsiveness.

Your MC Conj Second Person's Jupiter (orb 1-5 deg)

     Sometimes Second Person's expansiveness, while personally appealing, seems a bit laid back or at odds with your personal life goals. You are wonderful friends. However, you can be somewhat affected by Second Person's enthusiasm which can lead to overreactions or impulsiveness.

Your MC Conj Second Person's Neptune (orb 1-5 deg)

      Your shared spiritual views and interests powerfully affect your life style and your personal career directions. This idealism is important to both of you and you are ready to make material sacrifices for it. Second Person idealizes you and you admire Second Person.

Your Mercury Oppos Second Person's Pluto (orb 1-5 deg)

     Second Person has an odd effect on you and can almost magnetically draw you into another perspective and influence your ideas and opinions almost without your realizing it. In head-to-head confrontations, you tend to defer to Second Person's authority.

Your Mars Oppos Second Person's Neptune (orb 1-5 deg)

     No matter how long or how well you may know Second Person, there is an elusive quality which continues to fascinate. While you are stimulated by Second Person's idealism, you may also be frustrated by what feels like excessive secrecy. Your aggressive curiosity gets you nowhere.

Your Mars Square Second Person's Sun (orb 1-5 deg)

     There is a strong sexual energy between you. If this is not appropriate, it may manifest as conflicts. Whatever the nature of your relationship, it is important that you share special interests, preferably controversial so you oppose someone else, not each other.

Your Mars Square Second Person's Mercury (orb 1-5 deg)

     Your impatience or bossiness cuts no ice whatsoever with Second Person who will state personal opinions quite clearly and do whatever has to be done when and if the mood -- not you -- dictates. This may make for some lively moments between you which, on some level, you enjoy.

Your Mars Square Second Person's Venus (orb 1-5 deg)

     There is a powerful sexual energy between you which is somewhat complicated by your different emotional styles. Elusiveness does not exactly put you off and, at times, you come on too strong. If yours is not a sexual relationship, you will make war not love.

Your MC Square Second Person's Mercury (orb 1-5 deg)

     You really admire Second Person's intelligence and way of speaking. There is something about it that you respect. It vibrates with a certain authority for you and you will defer to it. Second Person enjoys sharing new ideas with you. You would work well together.

Your Moon Trine Second Person's Pluto (orb 1-5 deg)

     Second Person is of an age group and generation whose values you respect. Sometimes Second Person influences the way you feel about things through sheer magnetism of personality. That magnetism may intrigue you with its strange intensity and subtle eroticism.

Your Moon Trine Second Person's Asc. (orb 1-5 deg)

     From the first time you saw Second Person you intuitively sensed an emotional tie and were attracted. You are very comfortable together. You enjoy special feelings of closeness and camaraderie. Second Person may outwardly manifest the feelings you may hold within.

Your Mercury Trine Second Person's Jupiter (orb 1-5 deg)

     The two of you talk easily. Second Person enables you both to expand your ideas and to express them. If anything, Second Person tends to trigger so much enthusiasm in you, sometimes you say more than you should. You trust Second Person's intelligence and guidance.

Your Venus Trine Second Person's Pluto (orb 1-5 deg)

     Second Person holds a special fascination for you. The bond between you might be somewhat obsessive. Second Person often exerts an influence over you others may find difficult to understand. This relationship can transform the way you love and relate the rest of your life.

Your Mars Trine Second Person's Pluto (orb 1-5 deg)

     Your connection is intensely erotic and compulsive. Second Person's personal magnetism both intrigues you and stimulates you to be at your productive best. Your energy may initiate major transforming changes in Second Person whose charisma empowers you.

Your Mars Trine Second Person's Asc. (orb 1-5 deg)

     You like the way Second Person does things. It connects with a certain energy deep within yourself. Sometimes, however, you may be a bit hard on Second Person and make more demands than anyone could reasonably be expected to handle. This naturally leads either to a quarrel or Second Person's withdrawal.

Your Moon Sextile Second Person's Jupiter (orb 1-5 deg)

     No matter how intimate the nature of your relationship, basically you are wonderful friends. You trust each other implicitly and enjoy being together. This can be a negative relationship in that you may tend to encourage each other in excesses or bad habits.

Your Moon Sextile Second Person's Neptune (orb 1-5 deg)

     You have an unspoken understanding which is really quite lovely. You can pick up on Second Person's fantasies, dreams and thoughts intuitively -- even when apart. Quiet times aren't uncommunicative. Music may play an important role in your relationship.

Your Venus Sextile Second Person's Jupiter (orb 1-5 deg)

     The affection and good feeling you share are so strong, you are inclined to share projects and activities which will be lucky and fulfilling for you both. Second Person's kindness and generosity expands your feelings and your love inspires Second Person to be successful.

Your Asc. Sextile Second Person's Moon (orb 1-5 deg)

     Second Person identifies with you in a very personal way and you respond in a rather physical way to Second Person's emotional state. Sometimes this can create great bonding and closeness and sometimes it can lead to irritation. This is a very intimate and emotional tie.

Your MC Sextile Second Person's Pluto (orb 1-5 deg)

     Since you met, your life direction has been totally transformed. This relationship has a strange influence over you, particularly on a professional level. Second Person connects strongly to your public image and projects a power onto you which can be worrying.

Your Moon Sesqu. Second Person's Venus (orb 1-5 deg)

     No matter how long you've been together, there's something about this relationship which prevents you from feeling entirely secure or truly loved. Second Person doesn't always make you feel good about being who you are.

Your Moon Quincunx Second Person's Mercury (orb 1-5 deg)

     You often come away from discussions with Second Person feeling kind of irritated. You've made your point and Second Person replied  but somehow there's been no connection. The logic is there but not the understanding. You probably shouldn't work together.

Your Sun does not aspect Second Person's Moon

     While you may communicate very well on a rational level, sometimes you may feel as if Second Person doesn't really understand you. You may find Second Person's emotional responses incomprehensible as well. You have to make a special effort to share and connect.

Your Moon does not aspect Second Person's Moon

     While you may like and respect each other and understand each other intellectually, there is an emotional distance which might prevent you from being truly at home with or comfortable with each other. You may, at times, find each other's moods or responses puzzling.

Your Mercury does not aspect Second Person's Mercury

     You don't think alike. Even if you are in emotional accord, there are times you seriously question if you see the same world since, while your perceptions are not necessarily in conflict, they are so different. Discussions are rarely fruitful or pleasurable.

Your Mercury does not aspect Second Person's Venus

     There is something about Second Person's personal style and taste and way of expressing affection which doesn't comfortably merge with your own. It may not exactly lead to war, but it may have delayed the initial attraction. Your philosophies aren't quite in sync.

Your Venus does not aspect Second Person's Venus

     While you may be very fond of each other, you're quite dissimilar in some important ways. Your tastes diverge widely and you tend to express love very differently. You don't like the same people and have different interests. You wish Second Person dressed differently.

Second Person's Sun in your 6th house:

     It's very important for the success of this relationship that you work together on a project of intense mutual interest. Otherwise, you will find yourself feeling subordinate to Second Person which you won't like much - unless, of course, you enjoy feeling subordinate.

     If you are working together on a project of interest, you will grant Second Person the authority role and you will play the helping role - even if the obvious, more official roles are the reverse. Second Person is physically dependent upon you to make sure everything is functioning comfortably and will change personal habits to please you.

Second Person's Moon in your 10th house:

     You tend to defer to Second Person and display the respect one might give to a parent or to a caring, nurturing person in a business position of authority. Second Person responds to your professional goals but may not understand your dreams as well as one might think.

     Second Person can be quite instrumental in helping you to achieve your ambitions because of an uncanny ability to accurately predict the public's response to you. Second Person might also help you to define your goals and the best course to take to realize them successfully.

Second Person's Mercury in your 5th house:

     Second Person's intelligence is a continuing source of pleasure to you and may be one of the first things which attracted you. Even before you became intimately involved, you found you shared views on love and romance and enjoyed having discussions about them.

     Second Person writes wonderful letters and such correspondence may be an important part of your relationship. You may also share a strong interest in the arts and have similar tastes in the type of entertainment you enjoy. You have a good time together.

Second Person's Venus in your 6th house:

     You love to work with Second Person - particularly on projects which are, in some way, creative. Even in other types of work, Second Person brings out the best in you with cooperation and good humor. You value this input. What would you do without such support?

     Second Person has a wonderful effect upon your moods and sense of well-being. You simply function better when you are together. You even seem to take better care of yourself physically. All in all, Second Person is a wonderful influence on your health and your productivity.

Second Person's Mars in your 11th house:

     No matter how personal or private your relationship may be, you always find yourselves embroiled with other people. The two of you may be very active in a group which shares your strong interests. This group may have brought you together at the start.

     So-called friends may create problems in your relationship. Either they are in conflict with you as a couple or they divide you in some way. Perhaps you have different tastes in people and disagreements about associates may lead to unpleasant quarrels.

Second Person's Jupiter in your 10th house:

     Here is someone who can be very helpful to your career and reputation. Second Person may be a benefactor or a mentor who helps to create wonderful opportunities and whose judgment and guidance is so on-target, it leads you toward greater success.

     This association adds to your personal reputation. Second Person is known for integrity and is widely respected. Second Person's interest in your career lends status to your efforts and clearly enhances your potential for outstanding achievement and notoriety.

Second Person's Saturn in your 4th house:

     Your home life is never entirely personal. Second Person brings all kinds of work and responsibility right into your living center. Either you become involved and share the work responsibilities or you begin to feel very much confined and restricted in your own home.

     Second Person may make many demands upon you which are reminiscent of your father. Because of this relationship, you may spend a lot more time at home with the family than you may choose. Second Person may also have very definite ideas about rules and routines at home.

Second Person's Uranus in your 6th house:

     If you work together, don't expect Second Person to keep regular hours or work in predictable ways. The job will get done but it will be in Second Person's  time and in Second Person  way. The work you do together might be unusual or represent new age thinking.

     If you need Second Person to carry out some responsibility, you'll have better luck with it if you don't try to over-control the situation. Second Person can affect your mood in odd ways and cause you to feel restless and temperamental.

Second Person's Neptune in your 10th house:

     If your spiritual values are strong, deeply-felt and solidly thought out, this relationship can be inspirational in helping you to realize your dreams and achieve your goals. If the rest of the world doesn't understand your vision, you still have each other.

     However, if your personal philosophy is less well-established, this relationship can add to the confusion by contributing elements of illusion or even deception to your sense of what you're hoping to attain in life. Second Person can dissolve your dream.

Second Person's Pluto in your 6th house:

     Even if yours is not exactly a consulting relationship (such as patient therapist, astrologer-client, etc.) Second Person has an extraordinary effect upon your state of mind and important decision you are making about your career. Second Person subtly affects your health.

     Any investigative or research project you might work on together would be strikingly successful. Even if you technically occupy the position of authority, the respect you have for Second Person's opinions and perspective is such that there may be a subtle role reversal.