The Compatibility Report for

Second Person

and

First Person




Birth Data for Second Person:

Second Person
August 30, 1971
9:00 AM
Columbus, Ohio




Birth Data for First Person:

First Person
February 25, 2006
5:31:05 AM
New Aalesund, Norway










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     This Lovers Report is divided into 4 chapters.

     Chapter 1 compares your temperaments and personalities. The issues described in Chapter 1 become particularly powerful if you are married or live together. Idiosyncrasies or quirks in another person's personality do not bother us as much if our relationship is a casual one. For example, if one person is neat and tidy and the other is sloppy, this is more likely to become a concern if you are married than if you are only seeing each other occasionally.

     Pay close attention to the issues described in Chapter 2 because these are the most important themes in your relationship. For example, if themes of romance and sexual attraction are emphasized, then you can count on this relationship being a passionate one. However, if romance and sexuality are hardly mentioned at all, then this relationship will not be a passionate one. Note also that the material in Chapter 2 is presented roughly in order of importance, so that the material presented at the beginning of Chapter 2 is the most powerful.

     Chapter 4 describes issues in your relationship of less importance than those presented in Chapter 2. Chapter 3 describes situations and circumstances that arise if you have a close, long-lasting relationship.

     If a statement appears to contradict another statement, then your roles are likely to alternate. For example, a statement that Second Person is more aggressive than First Person, and another statement that First Person is more aggressive than Second Person, means that you alternate roles, with Second Person sometimes being the leader and First Person being the follower, and sometimes just the opposite. Also, read the statements carefully, as it is likely that a careful reading will reveal different kinds of aggressiveness or areas in which the aggressiveness is likely to express itself.

     To make the most of this report, combine this astrological analysis with other things that you know about each other. For example, we have assumed that you are opposite-sexed (assuming that both of you are heterosexual, otherwise same-sexed). Physical attractiveness, age, religion, education, family and cultural background will affect your relationship as well. The material in Chapters 2, 3, and 4 of this report describes the magnetism between you, but does not describe your individual natures. For example, suppose that Chapter 2 makes little mention of romance and sexuality, but the Natal Reports for each of you indicate that each of you has extremely strong romantic and sexual desires. In this case, marriage is not likely to be successful! However, if romance and sexuality are not important to either of you, then the lack of passion in your relationship is not likely to be as much of a stumbling block.


    Your birth chart interpretation is based on the positions of
the planets at the time of your birth. For the benefit of
students of astrology, these positions, along with other
technical information, are listed below:

Positions and Data for Second Person:
Sun      position is  6 deg. 30 min. of Virgo
Moon     position is 23 deg. 02 min. of Sagittarius
Mercury  position is 29 deg. 30 min. of Leo
Venus    position is  7 deg. 16 min. of Virgo
Mars     position is 12 deg. 33 min. of Aquarius
Jupiter  position is 28 deg. 34 min. of Scorpio
Saturn   position is  6 deg. 11 min. of Gemini
Uranus   position is 11 deg. 39 min. of Libra
Neptune  position is  0 deg. 23 min. of Sagittarius
Pluto    position is 28 deg. 40 min. of Virgo
Asc.     position is  0 deg. 03 min. of Libra
MC       position is  0 deg. 04 min. of Cancer
2nd cusp position is 26 deg. 14 min. of Libra
3rd cusp position is 26 deg. 39 min. of Scorpio
5th cusp position is  3 deg. 28 min. of Aquarius
6th cusp position is  3 deg. 53 min. of Pisces

Tropical/PLACIDUS   Daylight Savings Time observed.   GMT: 13:00:00
Time Zone: 5 hours West.   Lat & Long: 39 N 57 40   82 W 59 56


Positions and Data for First Person:
Sun      position is  6 deg. 26 min. of Pisces
Moon     position is 26 deg. 28 min. of Capricorn
Mercury  position is 24 deg. 25 min. of Pisces
Venus    position is 24 deg. 03 min. of Capricorn
Mars     position is  3 deg. 39 min. of Gemini
Jupiter  position is 18 deg. 46 min. of Scorpio
Saturn   position is  5 deg. 43 min. of Leo
Uranus   position is 10 deg. 28 min. of Pisces
Neptune  position is 18 deg. 00 min. of Aquarius
Pluto    position is 26 deg. 28 min. of Sagittarius
Asc.     position is 24 deg. 14 min. of Libra
MC       position is 26 deg. 55 min. of Scorpio
2nd cusp position is  5 deg. 08 min. of Taurus
3rd cusp position is 16 deg. 02 min. of Taurus
5th cusp position is 16 deg. 02 min. of Cancer
6th cusp position is  5 deg. 08 min. of Virgo

Tropical/PLACIDUS   Standard time observed.   GMT: 04:31:05
Time Zone: 1 hours East.   Lat & Long: 78 N 56      11 E 57  


Chapter 1
A Comparison of Temperaments and Life Styles
that Affect Your Ability to Harmonize with Each Other


Second Person's Sun in Virgo and First Person's Sun in Pisces:

     While Second Person is very uncomfortable with ambiguity and is always categorizing and organizing life into clearly defined compartments, First Person is quite content to absorb lots of seemingly contradictory ideas without having an urgent need to reconcile them. Second Person likes to carve out an area of life and specialize in it, developing skill and expertise in this well-defined domain, whereas First Person tends to drift among a wider variety of interests. Second Person likes a neat, tidy, orderly environment, whereas First Person's natural habitat is cluttered, sloppy, even chaotic to an outside observer. First Person is more poetic while Second Person is more comfortable in the world of facts. Your differences do not necessarily conflict with each other and there is a good possibility that you will appreciate and understand each other sufficiently to harmonize well. Neither of you is extremely ambitious or egocentric; both are gentle, even shy people, and your sensitivity is a plus in this relationship.

Second Person's Moon in Sagittarius and First Person's Moon in Capricorn:

     Your emotional needs and deeply ingrained attitudes toward life are somewhat at odds with each other. First Person is a sober realist who tends towards cynicism and pessimism at times. First Person's security lies in work, accomplishment, and having a solid material foundation. Feelings of self-doubt often limit what First Person is willing to aim for. Fears of poverty or financial ruin may drive First Person to work excessively also. Highly responsible and conscientious, First Person tends to take life too seriously and puts business or duty before pleasure.

     Second Person, on the other hand, is essentially an optimist with an innate faith in life, a Higher Power, or simply in good luck, which gives Second Person the confidence to take risks that First Person just doesn't feel safe or comfortable taking. First Person chooses a well-defined, secure, path over one that involves a lot of unknowns. Second Person craves adventure, and exploring the unknown is a very real and legitimate need of Second Person's. Second Person needs to soar in some way (either literally, intellectually, or spiritually) while First Person needs to have both feet planted firmly on earth.

     Also, First Person has good focus and concentration and the ability to persevere through difficult or dry periods, while Second Person is often impatient and flighty. Second Person can be too lax, careless, and irresponsible at times. Second Person wants to have a good time and sometimes that's all Second Person wants!

     First Person is inclined to make a commitment in a relationship and wants a firm commitment in return, while Second Person shies away from anything that will restrict freedom of movement and self-expression too much.

     Positively, Second Person's humor and light touch can help First Person not to worry so much, and First Person's realism can ground Second Person and temper Second Person's impractical enthusiasms.

Both of you have Sun conjunct or in hard aspect to Saturn:

     Both of you possess and innate capacity for much self-discipline and self-control, which at times leans towards excessive self-denial, personal inhibitions, an overly serious, burdened feeling about life, and a harshness toward yourselves. You share a tendency to feel inadequate due to very exacting, perfectionist standards you place upon yourselves. In order to fulfill your ambitions and purpose in life, you both may have had to give up a lot, including parental approval or support from outside of yourself. This enables you to have compassion for one another's struggles in life, if you are open with one another. However, you each tend to keep a lot inside and erect barriers between yourselves and other people.

Both of you have Jupiter conjunct or in hard aspect to Neptune:

     The two of you share an "escapist" mentality at times...fantasies of a) living in some tropical paradise where the bounty of nature provides all that you need and you'll never have to work again, or b) winning the lottery or coming into a great windfall so that you'll never have to work again, or c) the entire world changes into a blissful, cooperative, harmonious place where everything is shared, and you'll never have to work again...

     In other words, big dreams and hopes with little chance of practical realization. Together you may bring out each other's proneness to believe in get-rich-quick schemes or other regrettable shortcuts to success. Believing the Universe is going to magically take care of you, or being very gullible and naive about the true nature of life and people is another aspect of this. If you can enjoy these dreams and get inspiration from them, fine. But beware of investing heavily in them, or deluding yourselves.




Chapter 2
Major Themes in the Relationship: What Brought You Together


Second Person's Sun Opposition First Person's Sun:

     Opposites attract! Although the two of you have many basic differences in your personalities (see the beginning of Chapter 1 for a discussion of these differences), you are, nevertheless, attracted to each other and intrigued by each other. This is not a lukewarm relationship! It can easily be inclined to become a love-hate relationship: you love and respect each other when you are able to complement each other, and you hate each other when you fail to understand and appreciate your differences. It is up to the two of you to develop mutual appreciation for your differences rather than antagonize each other.

First Person's Sun Opposition Second Person's Venus:

     Sparks fly when you come into contact with one another! Strong feelings of love, attraction, warmth, mutual admiration, and appreciation bring you together, and you are able to express your love feelings openly and fully to one another. You can be great friends and companions as well as lovers.

First Person's Mars Conjunct Second Person's Saturn:

     The two of you are able to perform detailed tasks together, and really buckle down to a task at hand and successfully complete any task that you collaborate on. However, there may be too much caution and restraint when good opportunities arise. You are hesitant to take risks together. Second Person is inclined to doubt First Person's ability to succeed in any kind of risky or speculative endeavor and consequently often suggests a conservative approach to achieving goals. In some cases, this caution is unwarranted and very frustrating to First Person, but at other times Second Person provides a realistic, clear, focused perspective on how First Person can achieve goals.

     On another level, Second Person may suppress First Person's natural desires, drives, and physical energy level, which can leave First Person feeling drained and resentful. Beware of holding in anger and irritation with one another for it can slowly poison your relationship.

Second Person's Sun Square First Person's Mars:

     This is a passionate relationship, but also a rather aggressive and combative one at times. Sex may be a bit rough, crude, or insensitive as well. You stimulate each other both in sexual and non-sexual ways, but you are also inclined to irritate each other. As long as you don't end up fighting and competing with each other, you can accomplish a great deal together. However, the aggressiveness of this relationship is prone to foster anger and hurt feelings - so be careful not to incite hostility in each other.

First Person's Sun Square Second Person's Saturn:

     Second Person must be very careful not to harshly criticize or judge First Person. There is a strong tendency for First Person to feel blocked, frustrated, and discouraged by Second Person. Typically, Second Person will feel surprised by First Person's feelings of frustration and anger, and feel that First Person is just being overly sensitive to criticism. There is an element of truth to both viewpoints: Second Person tends to be too critical of First Person and First Person tends to be too sensitive to the criticism; the combination can be disastrous! First Person may try to ignore the problem, but ignoring the problem will not cause the problem to disappear. This is a relationship that can help both of you mature a great deal; you are able to build a secure, stable life together and face many challenges and responsibilities together that you have been trying to avoid. However, the tendency to become overly concerned with your responsibilities and be too conservative, cautious, and restrictive towards each other must not get out of hand, or you will both feel severely confined and restricted by being together.

First Person's Asc. Sextile Second Person's Moon:

     You are able to communicate with each other with such ease that you find yourselves openly sharing your personal concerns and interests very easily. Your friendship will continue to be a lasting, harmonious, meaningful one.

Second Person's Moon Square First Person's Mercury:

     First Person needs to guard against the tendency to be critical, unsympathetic, and overly analytical of Second Person's feelings, personal tastes, and habits. First Person may feel that Second Person is overly sensitive to criticism, and refuse to acknowledge responsibility for the problem as well. Petty annoyances, minor disagreements, and bickering can be avoided only if you both learn to listen sympathetically and to communicate clearly with each other.

First Person's Moon Trine Second Person's Pluto:

     You have a very deep appreciation for each other's innermost feelings. This is not a superficial relationship. From your first meetings, you found that you could reveal to each other your deepest concerns, fears, and drives. At the least you are close friends. This deep appreciation and rapport is also conducive to a long-lasting marriage.




Chapter 3
Destiny and Final Outcome of Your Relationship


Composite Sun Trine Mars:

     Together, you will be dynamic, energetic, bold, and able to accomplish a great deal. You may find that spending a lot of time together gives you more energy and more desire to do and to achieve. You excel together in athletics, vigorous outdoor activities, and the like.

     Part of the essence of your relationship has to do with fostering confidence and a positive, active approach to life. You enable each other to be assertive, and to feel proud of yourselves and your achievements.

Composite Sun Quincunx Saturn:

     Circumstances beyond your control and not of your choosing may intrude themselves upon you two, and prevent you from having as full a relationship as you would wish. You may have to overcome great odds in order to be together, or simply find that other duties, obligations, and commitments don't enable you to be together as much as you would like. Beware of reinforcing thoughts of gloom and doom, struggle, or "we can't", and try to focus instead on what you do enjoy about one another and your relationship. Inevitably, there will be lacks, gaps, regrets, or missing elements in your relationship, but if you concentrate on what IS working, you'll have a better chance of overcoming those difficulties.

Composite Moon Square Mars:

     Constant irritation, aggravation, defensiveness, and friction between you can make your relationship a war zone instead of an oasis of comfort and peace, especially if you live together. Your feuds are not likely to be of the quiet, underground variety, either - everybody nearby will see and hear all about it. At least you can't be accused of bottling up your feelings, and if you both are the type who enjoys stormy confrontations, you may be comfortable with the level of volatility in this relationship. However, your children or the people who live around you may not. Your effect as a couple can be very unsettling.

     Part of the purpose of your relationship appears to be to stir up unresolved controversies, rivalries, and competitive feelings from your pasts. Try not to blindly lash out or respond to each other based on these old feelings.

Composite Moon Conjunct Neptune:

     Together the two of you can realize an unusually beautiful, spiritual communion of souls. You'll develop a delicate and subtle sensitivity to one another's feelings, moods, and inner needs, an almost mystical understanding of one another. This unusual degree of empathy will enable you to feel extremely close to and compassionate toward one another. Telepathic or nonverbal communication takes place quite readily between you, and your psychic senses are evoked by being in one another's presence. For instance, you may begin to see auras or have accurate intuitions about distant events, especially if they involve one another.

     Your receptivity, passivity, nurturing qualities, spirituality, and sensitivity are undoubtedly heightened as a result of being together. Imagination is a major ingredient in your relationship, too.

     One of the only potential liabilities in all this would be if you are already poorly connected to the earth and prone to confuse true spirituality with fantasy. In that case the two of you could create your own little dream world together, one that has no basis in anything real, an escapist's illusion.

     If either or both of you have problems with alcohol or other addictions, beware of trying to rescue, save, or cure one another - or on the other hand, of succumbing to or participating in these things together. That could be really devastating to what could otherwise be a beautiful sharing relationship.

Composite Mercury Quincunx Pluto:

     One of the functions of your relationship, and one which may not be obvious initially, is for one or both of you to consciously acknowledge and bring to light something which has been a taboo subject for you in the past, probably something you wish very much to avoid. Even if you prefer to hide it or pretend it isn't very important, some piece of information will force itself upon you both, and you will need to deal with it. Your conversations will continually wind around to this topic, much to the consternation of at least one if not both of you. Some sort of domination or potential for blackmail could exist unless and until complete honesty prevails.

Composite Mars Square Neptune:

     Between you there is considerable confusion and struggle over two particular issues: healthy self-assertion and sexuality. Regarding the first: when you are together one or both of you lacks directness and direction, and you may feel increasingly weaker and more dependent because you surrender your right to act on your own behalf and assert yourself forthrightly. Rather than openly and directly going for what you want, you may try to obtain your desires in an underhanded, less obvious way. Anger and aggressiveness are diluted or expressed only indirectly. Instead of open confrontation, subtle attacks on the other person's self-esteem and an erosion of that person's confidence occurs.

    In the arena of sexuality, confusion and deception are also issues to be dealt with. Intentional lying and cover-ups are the worst potential, but even if that doesn't happen, it is possible that an ideal of "purity", transcendence of the "animal" nature, etc. may prevent full expression on the sexual level - or at least may generate a lot of guilt.

     This is a difficult pattern that in some way arises as a result of your coming together. If other indications are positive, you may well be able to overcome the more troublesome aspects of it. A commitment to honesty will be absolutely essential.

Composite Moon Opposition Saturn:

     Emotional separations, withdrawal, and distancing yourselves from one another are issues you will have to deal with over and over again in your relationship. You easily could simply pull away from one another in subtle ways, and grow increasingly cooler, more impersonal, and distant, leaving nothing more than a shell of a relationship with no life or feeling in it.

     The other possibility is that you truly want to be together, but outside demands, commitments, or other pressing obligations prevent this. Unrequited yearning, unfulfilled emotional needs, a longing for closeness which simply doesn't happen - these are some of the undertones between you two.

     This is a relationship in which you are both meant to learn from emotional pain and frustration. For one thing, you will have to find ways to nurture and take care of yourselves rather than expecting the other person to provide that support. Long, dry spells or periods of aloofness can be expected. This is not to say the two of you cannot come together, only that there will be much to overcome, not the least of which are your own fears of smothering or closeness and your self-protective defenses.

Composite Venus Conjunct Pluto:

     A  complete transformation of your attitudes about love and relationship will occur through this fateful, profound connection. Expect intense feelings of attraction which can amount almost to obsession, a deep irresistible fascinations which may be felt simultaneously with a pulling away, and a sense that the whole thing is unavoidable even if excruciatingly painful at times.

     What initially may feel like mad love, will reveal other, hidden sides of your emotions. The desire to control, dominate, or manipulate (sexually or in other ways) may well be a part of this. Extreme jealousy, issues of trust and betrayal, as well as deep, passionate love are all easily aroused between the two of you.

     Certainly this is not a bond to be taken lightly. You will learn an incredible amount about what you are capable of, through your interaction. You are playing with fire here. Whether it is a purifying fire, or an eternal flame, or whether it will all end in ashes, is up to the two of you and how conscious you are willing to become.

Composite Mars Square Saturn:

     There are a number of definite problems that arise when you join forces, and they may be quite painful and frustrating if your relationship is a long-term one. Working together for a mutual goal - especially if it requires initiative and concrete action - can be enormously painstaking and discouraging at times, so that you will find that you get more done, and do so more quickly and easily, when you work separately. Together, one or both of you will feel blocked, criticized, inhibited, self-conscious and anxious about performing.

     Openly expressing anger or your personal desires will also seem to be prohibited - at least one or both of you will feel that way. And performance anxiety combined with suppressed anger can have devastating effects on your sexual happiness, as well as your overall sense of well being as a couple. Disappointment in the sexual arena can then generate more anger and frustration, creating a vicious circle. You must learn to get out of each other's way and consciously adopt a more accepting, non-judging attitude towards your partner' efforts, in order to make this relationship work satisfactorily.




Chapter 4
Other Themes in Your Relationship


Second Person's Sun in First Person's 6th house,
First Person's Sun in Second Person's 6th house:

     You work together very well and it is likely that you will form a working partnership of some kind or be colleagues (as well as lovers) or associates in your business or profession. You may sometimes feel like your relationship is more like an employer-employee relationship than a romantic one! This quality tends to be a positive one, though, for you are able to assist each other in very practical ways.

Second Person's Moon in First Person's 10th house:

     Second Person takes a great interest in First Person's career and reputation, and is likely to openly promote First Person's career, drawing recognition to First Person and "advertising" First Person's services and talents. Second Person may be less sensitive to First Person's inner feelings and personal needs.

First Person's Moon in Second Person's 4th house:

     It is highly probably that you will become involved in domestic affairs together, even if your relationship is not a close one. You enjoy living together and sharing in cooking, home maintenance, and you feel like "family" with each other.

Second Person's Mercury in First Person's 5th house:

     You probably enjoy playing mental games together - word games, guessing games, etc. and you may also undertake a creative mental activity together, such as writing.

First Person's Mercury in Second Person's 6th house:

     You enjoy tackling practical chores together. First Person, in particular, provides Second Person with lots of ideas on how to maintain health, property, and efficiently run daily affairs.

Second Person's Venus in First Person's 6th house:

     First Person sees Second Person as a person who is ready and willing to help with any problems that arise. Second Person is a dependable friend that First Person can count on.

First Person's Venus in Second Person's 4th house:

     Second Person's deep feelings of love and admiration for First Person are not likely to evaporate over time. Both of you love your times together, especially your shared domestic life.

Second Person's Mars in First Person's 11th house:

     The two of you are likely to collaborate on community affairs, political activities, or intellectual endeavors. Second Person encourages First Person to participate in social groups and contribute to society in greater measure. It is likely that the two of you will collaborate on committees or in some kind of business. Whether your endeavors are successfully depends largely on whether you can work together harmoniously; if you arouse anger in each other, you will end up being adversaries or competitors instead of partners in a team.

First Person's Mars in Second Person's 9th house:

     First Person challenges Second Person's philosophical viewpoints and religious beliefs. There is the possibility that First Person will try to force individual views on Second Person.

Second Person's Jupiter in First Person's 10th house:

     Circumstances develop so that Second Person is able to assist First Person in career and achieving long-term goals. Second Person takes a great interest in First Person's ambitions and is a great supporter and promoter of First Person's talents. You can also be very successful in business activities together.

First Person's Jupiter in Second Person's 2nd house:

     First Person helps Second Person in very practical, tangible ways. Even if First Person is not particularly wealthy or generous, circumstances are likely to arise where First Person is able to provide Second Person with material benefits and practical assistance.

Second Person's Saturn in First Person's 4th house:

     If your relationship is a long-term one and you live together, you can expect that this relationship will bring both of you face to face with personal habits of your own that must be improved, or at least adapted to the tastes of your partner. Issues such as tidiness and neatness at home, use of abusive or foul language, choice of foods, tastes in music and decor, approaches towards raising children, etc. come to the fore. At times you will come to an impasse and feel that you cannot come to an agreement on these issues. First Person, in particular, may become very frustrated by some of Second Person's deeply ingrained, personal habits. If your ethnic backgrounds or upbringings are very different, this problem can be severe. If both of you can be tolerant, open-minded, accepting of shortcomings in your mate, and willing to learn new attitudes, you can turn potentially frustrating situations into opportunities to mature and grow emotionally.

First Person's Saturn in Second Person's 11th house:

     Involvement with community, colleagues and organizations can become a critical issue in your relationship. First Person, in particular, is likely to question and criticize Second Person for involvement (or the lack of it) in various clubs, groups, or organizations. Also, you may both join an organization together, because of sharing a mutual enthusiasm, and both go through a period of disillusionment and sobering-up when the organization does not live up to expectations. Fortunately, these experiences are not likely to be extremely disconcerting to either of you, and, in fact, you will feel that you have both matured a great deal through the experiences.

Second Person's Uranus in First Person's 6th house,
First Person's Uranus in Second Person's 6th house:

    Handling of daily chores and tasks can get very disorganized in your relationship, particularly if you live together or are married. Both of you may feel that trying to maintain an orderly life is an endless battle. Your daily routines change frequently and you often switch roles. For example, it is likely that sometimes Second Person may take are of cooking and cleaning, and then First Person assumes the responsibility, rather than one person always handling the same responsibilities. If you try to force a rigid system, you will find that it is not comfortable for either of you.

Second Person's Neptune in First Person's 10th house:

     Second Person tends to have idealistic notions of what First Person can achieve in a worldly sense, and consequently Second Person is likely to encourage First Person to pursue dreams without compromise. First Person needs to be careful not to lose sight of the practical details that are needed to meet these goals.

First Person's Neptune in Second Person's 5th house:

     First Person enjoys acting childish and silly with Second Person. You enjoy playing games with each other, and there is also a strong element of fantasy and imagination in your romantic and sexual life.

Second Person's Pluto in First Person's 6th house:

     If your relationship is a long-term one, circumstances will develop so that you will both feel that you need to work intensively together to meet your goals, and you will have the shared motivation and dedication to do this. Second Person, in particular, will work, without complaints, to get the job done. There is a mountain that you must climb together, and the chances are good that you will, indeed, climb it.

First Person's Pluto in Second Person's 3rd house:

     First Person sometimes expresses ideas and opinions in a very forceful manner to Second Person, who inspires First Person to take a strong stand on issues, but Second Person may feel that First Person is too narrow-minded at times. The two of you can work well together in areas that require concentration or bold presentations such as research, marketing, etc.

Second Person's Sun Opposition First Person's Uranus:

     This relationship changes course suddenly and unexpectedly. There is a great deal of unpredictability to the relationship. At best, your relationship is exciting and unconventional, and at worst it leaves Second Person frustrated by First Person's unwillingness to be more committed and devoted to the relationship. The unpredictable nature of the relationship and the lack of constancy and security may cause either, or both, of you to feel very uncomfortable.

Second Person's Asc. Square First Person's Pluto:

     First Person is a force for considerable benefit or harm in Second Person's life, either greatly enhancing Second Person's personal power and confidence, or seriously undermining it. First Person forces Second Person to examine the hidden motives and intentions behind Second Person's actions, and may bring out some unsavory aspects of Second Person's character or past history.

     An intense confrontation of wills, often going on in a subtle, behind-the-scenes way, characterizes your interaction at times. It is very likely that there is much "unfinished business" of an emotional or personal nature which draws the two of you together, and may bind you in a powerful love-hate, "can't live with him, can't live without him" relationship.

Second Person's Asc. Trine First Person's Moon:

     There is a strong feeling of family and kinship between you. You have a natural affinity for each other and feel very at ease and comfortable with each other, so consequently your friendship is likely to be very long-lasting.

Second Person's Asc. Trine First Person's Mars:

     Attraction between you is very strong. Your goals and interests harmonize very well, and you are naturally inclined to join together in shared interests, projects, goals, and work.

Second Person's Moon Conjunct First Person's Pluto:

     Second Person's emotional responses to First Person are very intense. If First Person is physically attractive to Second Person, then the attractive power of First Person over Second Person is extremely powerful. However, the attraction tends to have a love/hate quality to it, and you feel drawn to each other, but also wary and distrustful of each other. It is likely that you feel both drawn to each other and repulsed by each other at the same time! The emotional response to each other is intense and complex, and the ultimate outcome of this deep, complex emotional tie is difficult to predict, but one thing is certain: this is not a lukewarm relationship and you "get under each other's skin", evoking intense feelings from each other. Second Person can easily become obsessed with First Person!

First Person's Moon Sextile Second Person's Jupiter:

     There is a light-hearted, jovial quality to your relationship. This relationship tends to bring both of you "out of the closet". You enjoy going out together and entertaining friends at your home. The friendly, harmonious quality of your relationship is contagious and, as a couple, you are likely to have many good friends and a happy domestic life.

First Person's Mercury Opposition Second Person's Pluto:

     Your conversations have a deep, probing quality. You uncover hidden aspects of yourselves and, in general, you find that you can share at a much deeper level than you can with most people. If you encounter a topic where you strongly disagree with each other, you will both hammer on this issue until it is resolved or until death - whichever comes first!

Second Person's Mercury Square First Person's Mars:

     The tendency to argumentativeness, verbal abuse, and mutual misunderstanding is very strong so please heed the following advice, especially if your relationship is a permanent one: try to avoid abusive language towards each other, and do not try to coerce the other person to accept your views. You enjoy challenging each other's ideas, showing the weaknesses, inconsistencies, or superficialities in each other's reasoning. While the intention is good, the net result can be hurt feelings and anger. Typically there is some truth to each other's point of view, but a lack of real appreciation and respect for each other's ideas triggers argumentativeness.

Second Person's Mercury Trine First Person's Pluto:

     Your conversations are deep and probing. You understand each other at a very deep level, and you may find yourselves revealing things about yourself that you have not mentioned to anyone else. You also make a good research team or investigators.

First Person's Mercury Trine Second Person's Jupiter:

     Communication is open and harmonious. You are able to help each other incorporate new ideas and expand your perspective. If you have a close, long-lasting relationship, you will develop similar political, social, religious, and philosophical views. The similarity in your overall perspectives on life helps the two of you feel very happy to share your lives together. Your overall beliefs and aims are in harmony.

Second Person's Venus Opposition First Person's Uranus:

     This is an unusual relationship! The relationship seems to follows its own, unpredictable course that neither of you can control. At least life isn't boring! Sexual attraction to each other is aroused suddenly and unpredictably, but then it subsides just as quickly and unexpectedly. If your relationship is a permanent one, you will find that periods of intense sexual attraction come and go in waves, and you both will have to be able to adjust to these unpredictable changes. First Person, in particular, may be erratic, inconstant, or unreliable toward Second Person, perhaps unwilling to make a commitment or to keep promises.

Second Person's Venus Square First Person's Mars:

     This is likely to be a stormy and fiery relationship. The romantic attraction between you is very strong, but your feelings are often not in tune with each other. One of you (typically First Person but sometimes Second Person) may feel sexually aroused by the other and consequently be too aggressive in approach, while the other person feels great love and affection, but is not feeling as sexually attracted. Jealousy and possessiveness are also likely. Feelings can swing back and forth and you may not realize how much you love each other until you are away from each other.

First Person's Venus Trine Second Person's Pluto:

     The romantic love and sexual attraction for each other is very compelling and deep. You wield a powerful, charismatic influence on each other and your love affair is a powerful one. This could be one of the most fulfilling, all-consuming relationships of your life!

First Person's Mars Opposition Second Person's Neptune:

     You can act very silly and childish together. When the two of you get together, you love to let your imaginations run wild. You have difficulty accomplishing anything of a serious or mundane nature together, and you prefer to explore artistic, religious, and metaphysical areas, rather than focus on more mundane affairs. If there is a physical or romantic attraction to each other, you are likely to feel mesmerized by each other, and fall into a very dreamy romance. Your sexual life also has a strong element of fantasy.

First Person's Mars Trine Second Person's Pluto:

     As your relationship grows over time, you begin to work together very closely on shared goals and objectives. You develop a joint sense of purpose and you join together on projects that are rich in purpose and meaning. The intimate blending of your creative efforts and career goals makes the two of you that much closer and the bonding between you is very strong. Physical and sexual attraction is also strong, and chances are high that if you marry, this will be a lasting, strong union.

Second Person's Saturn Sextile First Person's Saturn:

     You act dependably and responsibly toward one another and coordinate well in working toward common goals, meeting obligations, making plans for future financial security, or any practical business. You are a very solid team and can fulfill long-term commitments to one another without feeling burdened or unhappy about it.

Second Person's Pluto Square First Person's Pluto:

     No matter how pleasant or harmonious your relationship is on the surface, there are deeper conflicts on a subconscious level, often having to do with the different motives and perspectives of your generations.